We have a policy here at The Adorable Stalkers: You do not stalk married or taken men. Ever.
While it’s normal to occasionally develop feelings for someone who is unavailable, it’s flat out trashy and desperate to actually pursue them. And more so, to pursue them in the public forum – whether on a somewhat anonymous web site like this one, or a more open venue like Facebook. Our theory is, if they like you, they will eventually break up with their significant other, and after a polite grace period, contact you. In the meantime, you don’t need to advertise the goods. You don’t need to flaunt your interest. Because they already know how you feel. Trust me. And so do their girlfriends. And we don’t like it.